tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post1166805412695410043..comments2023-07-05T02:07:57.306-07:00Comments on Under a Leaf with Ginny: The MutilationGinnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-52387138249648068852007-10-19T13:01:00.000-07:002007-10-19T13:01:00.000-07:00I dont even live there anymore, but that really pi...I dont even live there anymore, but that really pisses me off. This wasnt the first time that the cactus had been threated to be cut right? didnt what's his face try to "trim" them up back when they were trying to sell their house?<BR/>I read russell's blog and there they said our yard looked horrible. Have they not even seen the yard to the left of ours, theirs is far worse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-80893772154890920572007-09-16T02:57:00.000-07:002007-09-16T02:57:00.000-07:00whoever said the plant was not on your property an...whoever said the plant was not on your property and could be vandalized is a jackass. By the same reasoning when you place your garbage can on the curb, then it is free game and can be stolen. Come to think of it I am going to cruise my neighborhood tonight with a shovel and remove all plants I like that are on my neighbors property line, remove them and place them in my back yard. Thanks for the wonderful legal advice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-88894036950791623292007-09-11T09:17:00.000-07:002007-09-11T09:17:00.000-07:00I always find it interesting how people who do not...I always find it interesting how people who do not profess to be Christians have a tendency to behave in a manner more consistent with the teachings and example of Jesus of Nazareth than do those who claim to believe in His divinity.<BR/><BR/>I am very sorry that happened to you; you can come live by me! I promise not to invite you to church or attack any agave you might have (though I find them aesthetically distressing). It is very kind of you to not press charges or even have the cops go talk to them. One can only hope that they will learn from your example.Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515302758830615411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-60431181864174897972007-09-09T07:37:00.000-07:002007-09-09T07:37:00.000-07:00Welcome Tune and Joel...your comments are apprecia...Welcome Tune and Joel...your comments are appreciated. :)<BR/><BR/>Good luck with that book Tune...let me know when it's finished. <BR/><BR/>We had another neighbor stop by and ask once if they could take some of the leaves...they said they wanted them for cooking? Anyone ever hear of using agave to cook with? Anyway, we let them have some.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-52682749963029601832007-09-08T22:02:00.000-07:002007-09-08T22:02:00.000-07:00Maybe they are furtively trying to brew tequila? ...Maybe they are furtively trying to brew tequila? If so, they're going about it the wrong way.<BR/><BR/>No, this kind of holy war committed by any party for any reason is disgusting. Those agaves have been around since before you were there, no, so why did they not act before?<BR/><BR/>Yes, joe has it right. This is a matter for the police.Joelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03203073725903325863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-35545165663341981912007-09-08T18:54:00.000-07:002007-09-08T18:54:00.000-07:00I stumbled upon your site while doing research for...I stumbled upon your site while doing research for a book. I'm just coming to terms with my beliefs (or lack thereof), and stories like these weird me out. I often feel like I'm one of the people in the Body Snatchers movie from the 70s. 'What will they do if they find me out', I think to myself! I fear the backlash about my book, and it isn't even written yet! I go to forums and find that there are people who are 'out' with their thoughts, and others who are 'in' because of what they fear could happen. I hope to write something that will help the isolated ones of the world find each other out and find comfort/strength. Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-6254310866711720422007-09-07T16:29:00.000-07:002007-09-07T16:29:00.000-07:00I've just caught up on this- I am sorry for what h...I've just caught up on this- I am sorry for what has happened to you and your family- hateful behaviour from neighbours is very distressing- I do forensic psychology for a living and the fact that he made a concerted effort to go over the road with a tool and actually physically do something is concerning- it wouldn't be so concerning if he had not made a decision to physically do something- I would please watch out for further incidents and report absolutely EVERYTHING to the police no matter how minor it could be considered by other people. These types of criminalds- who don't think of themselves as criminals- often start small - I would also get cameras for your property.Psychodivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11915834209325453776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-6341932323202346182007-09-07T05:20:00.000-07:002007-09-07T05:20:00.000-07:00Hi Kat, welcome to my little slice of internet. Af...Hi Kat, welcome to my little slice of internet. <BR/><BR/>After further pondering Josh's words, I think the bottom line is that the neighbor doesn't like us at all. Because of his dislike of us, he didn't use actions that are more in line with someone who respects someone else. He wasn't a bit concerned about not hurting my feelings, or helping us out. I guess you just have to be in my shoes to know this. <BR/><BR/>We've done NOTHING to this neighbor ...not in the past...and not now. We've always been kind to those around us and don't deserve the treatment we've gotten from these folks. If it had been any other neighbor, the man would have knocked on their door and had a friendly chat about any plant that might be considered overgrown.<BR/><BR/>One would think that if my plant was a problem for the city they would have given me a notice. Each garbage day my trash cans sit in front of that plant...if it was hazardous or a problem plant, I imagine the garbage men would have been complaining to me about it.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-35809836672954787072007-09-06T19:51:00.000-07:002007-09-06T19:51:00.000-07:00I read about this on the Friendly Atheist, and fol...I read about this on the Friendly Atheist, and followed the links. <BR/><BR/>I'm really sorry this happened to you, but it doesn't surprise me. <BR/>I'm a single mom, atheist, raising my sons in an atheist home. (OH the horror!) I've been called names, had people throw things at my house, had my children called names and many more things. <BR/>If we aren't like them, we aren't worthy of breathing, and it's amazing what these people are capable of doing all in the name of their god. <BR/>They do hateful things to others.<BR/><BR/>"Thanx. Have you considered baking the neighbors a nice pie to smooth things over a little?"<BR/><BR/>LOL! Because a home made pie solves everything. hahahahahaKathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07329524308637759898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-28530318519233816312007-09-06T19:46:00.000-07:002007-09-06T19:46:00.000-07:00Thanks for posting again Josh...you make some vali...Thanks for posting again Josh...you make some valid points, although I don't entirely agree with every thing you mentioned. <BR/><BR/>In any case, I thought about baking them some cookies to show that I am a live and let live type and don't hold grudges...I doubt they'd eat them though...which would be a shame because my cookies rock. ;)Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-64147028409351714912007-09-06T19:34:00.000-07:002007-09-06T19:34:00.000-07:00To be honest I am not up on the laws of "right of ...To be honest I am not up on the laws of "right of way". Regardless, why do you think I owe my neighbor any kind of apology, particularly in light of the fact that they've been quite unfriendly to us in the past because we are atheists?<BR/><BR/>--<BR/><BR/>Well if it wasn't actually on your property, then the neighbors weren't actually trespassing. I don't see how them being unfriendly has anything to do with it. Either they want on your property or they didn't. If they didn't, then they're not trespassers. That's all. <BR/><BR/>---<BR/>The bottom line...the plant is mine, it's in front of my house, etc... If it was considered a menace, who do you think would be responsible for it? The whole neighborhood? A neighbor? No, it would fall on me. The city would ask ME to do something about it.<BR/><BR/>---<BR/><BR/>Well frankly, I've looked at the pic a couple of times, and it looks like what your neighbor tried to do was to try and trim the part of the plant where the leaves might have been growing out into the street. That's a possible explanation for why he only trimmed on the street side, not on the side facing your house. If he meant to be malicious, then it occurs he would have either chopped down the entire plant or certainly the part facing your house.<BR/><BR/>There's probably some ordinance or other that says shrubs have to be neatly trimmed and not going out into the street, which would make sense. Unfortunately, there's a past history of friction between you, I'm sorry for that. He might not have wanted to approach you directly before doing it so as not to offend or insult you, i.e. hurting your feelings, due to the past misunderstandings/friction. Maybe he thought he was doing you a favor by taking care of it for you.<BR/><BR/>You know old people can have pretty strange ways about things. Everything has to be "just so." The garbage bag has to be tied a certain way, the old newspapers have to be tied up for recycling in a certain way, etc. Maybe this neighbor just was sort of OCD about this.<BR/>---<BR/>Also the police officer didn't seem to think I was out of line either by being upset and he was the one that said I had the right to press charges of trespassing and vandalism...wouldn't he know the laws in our area to suggest such actions?<BR/><BR/>---Well I don't know if it's always a good idea to follow a police officer's suggestions on legal issues. It doesn't really sound like you were being encouraged to press charges, just that the police were telling you you could if you wanted, not that you should. It's probably a good idea that you didn't, no good can come from legal quarrels with the neighbors.<BR/>--<BR/>Btw anonymous...you should make up a user name or something. Welcome to the blog.<BR/><BR/>Thanx. Have you considered baking the neighbors a nice pie to smooth things over a little?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-23667575249023883422007-09-06T18:12:00.000-07:002007-09-06T18:12:00.000-07:00Are you sure that plant is within your property bo...<B>Are you sure that plant is within your property boundaries?<BR/><BR/>It clearly looks like it's on the grass strip between the sidewalk and the street.<BR/><BR/>In most areas, that grass strip is a public right-of-way.<BR/><BR/>If the plant is not actually on your property (check your survey or call the town to find out for sure), then I think you owe your neighbor a BIG apology.</B><BR/><BR/>To be honest I am not up on the laws of "right of way". Regardless, why do you think I owe my neighbor any kind of apology, particularly in light of the fact that they've been quite unfriendly to us in the past because we are atheists? <BR/><BR/>The bottom line...the plant is mine, it's in front of my house, etc... If it was considered a menace, who do you think would be responsible for it? The whole neighborhood? A neighbor? No, it would fall on me. The city would ask ME to do something about it. <BR/><BR/>Also the police officer didn't seem to think I was out of line either by being upset and he was the one that said I had the right to press charges of trespassing and vandalism...wouldn't he know the laws in our area to suggest such actions? <BR/><BR/>Btw anonymous...you should make up a user name or something. Welcome to the blog.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-53611896962083947662007-09-06T15:33:00.000-07:002007-09-06T15:33:00.000-07:00Are you sure that plant is within your property bo...Are you sure that plant is within your property boundaries?<BR/><BR/>It clearly looks like it's on the grass strip between the sidewalk and the street.<BR/><BR/>In most areas, that grass strip is a public right-of-way.<BR/><BR/>If the plant is not actually on your property (check your survey or call the town to find out for sure), then I think you owe your neighbor a BIG apology.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-21987329822929056352007-09-06T07:14:00.000-07:002007-09-06T07:14:00.000-07:00Actually I have some office mangement jobs in the ...<B>Actually I have some office mangement jobs in the middle of nowhere if you like desert scenery.</B><BR/><BR/>I love the desert, but I don't think it's Russell's cup a tea. <BR/><BR/><B>I would say go to the police, but you'd probably find that they are bigoted fundamentalist religo-nuts as well! They might side with the vandals!!</B><BR/><BR/>Actually we did report the incident and the officer that came to talk to me was extremely nice and took our side. He said he had seen me before around the neighborhood in my car and wondered what my bumper sticker meant. I had the opportunity to explain it to him and do a little PR for the atheist viewpoint. He didn't see a thing wrong with it. Quite refreshing if you ask me. It's nice to know there are still some "Peace" officers on the payroll.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-16015880356042193962007-09-06T04:01:00.000-07:002007-09-06T04:01:00.000-07:00Sorry to hear about your situation, if it was I, t...Sorry to hear about your situation, if it was I, then I'm sure I would be absolutely livid!!<BR/><BR/>I would say go to the police, but you'd probably find that they are bigoted fundamentalist religo-nuts as well! They might side with the vandals!!<BR/><BR/>I agree with the earlier comment by joe urging you to smile and wave everytime you see them. After all, they are the children here..! Might as well make them feel it.<BR/><BR/>Good luck!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09036024011336061875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-31200000832814502162007-09-05T21:09:00.000-07:002007-09-05T21:09:00.000-07:00Actually I have some office mangement jobs in the ...Actually I have some office mangement jobs in the middle of nowhere if you like desert scenery.Sean Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14485575602984697926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-90764575045832977322007-09-05T20:10:00.000-07:002007-09-05T20:10:00.000-07:00This would all go away if you just trusted Jebus.....This would all go away if you just trusted Jebus..or something like that.Davey G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08827783872088603993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-37110487027323765512007-09-05T19:14:00.000-07:002007-09-05T19:14:00.000-07:00You should all move here. Economies running hot an...<B>You should all move here. Economies running hot and people really don't give two shits if you're religious or not.</B><BR/><BR/>Where do I sign up? Sounds like a great place, plus I could hike out in the outback!Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-51968589194058310442007-09-05T19:11:00.000-07:002007-09-05T19:11:00.000-07:00Thanks everyone for your support and kind words. I...Thanks everyone for your support and kind words. I'm trying to get past the hard feelings and think of productive ways I can approach the neighbor. I'd like him to compensate for the damage he has done. <BR/><BR/>I need to find out how much the plant was worth. I'll be calling a couple of nurseries tomorrow to try and get an idea. If the neighbor wants to replace it he can, or maybe he can talk me into some other kind of plant that he can purchase and put in the ground himself. This will make me feel a little better I think...that and perhaps an apology.Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-29116103967479924052007-09-05T18:53:00.000-07:002007-09-05T18:53:00.000-07:00I'm really sorry this happened to you. There is ab...I'm really sorry this happened to you. There is absolutely no reason for behavior like that.Mandi Wattshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07017498069965537129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-43911442497712306252007-09-05T13:18:00.000-07:002007-09-05T13:18:00.000-07:00Well, wikipedia says it's related to the lily.Well, <A HREF="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agave" REL="nofollow">wikipedia says</A> it's related to the lily.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05324968314168283095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-42961861953525775262007-09-05T12:56:00.000-07:002007-09-05T12:56:00.000-07:00Heh, I learn something new every day...I always th...Heh, I learn something new every day...I always thought it was a cactus of sorts...but I guess it's a succulent? Too lazy to go look it up right now...Ginnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11304756298690691625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-86593645957789844712007-09-05T12:43:00.000-07:002007-09-05T12:43:00.000-07:00By the way, I was informed by some people on the M...By the way, I was informed by some people on the Motley Fool that the agave is not a cactus, nor even related to a cactus.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05324968314168283095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-73409618609045714082007-09-05T10:59:00.000-07:002007-09-05T10:59:00.000-07:00Click here for more on my perspective of this stor...<A HREF="http://kazimskorner.blogspot.com/2007/09/we-have-couple-of-agave-cacti.html" REL="nofollow">Click here</A> for more on my perspective of this story.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05324968314168283095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18700528.post-49655368439559916612007-09-05T08:49:00.000-07:002007-09-05T08:49:00.000-07:00I hope I am not duplicating this comment, my compu...I hope I am not duplicating this comment, my computer crashed just as I hit "publish".<BR/><BR/>I agree that you need to file a police report. This ass shouldn't be allowed to get away with what he did. The sad part is that you need to take the high ground to prove that "your kind" is better than they are. <BR/><BR/>You should be able to just file charges not be afraid of the reprocutions of that.<BR/><BR/>UGH. Poor cacti.Poodleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04722193899918659459noreply@blogger.com